It’s going to be ok. We are going to be ok. 💛
The world is loud, the news is heavy, and taking a breath doesn't mean losing your voice. It means protecting it. And that's what I want to remind you (and myself) of today.
No matter how chaotic things get, never let anything take away your voice, your power, or your ability to create something beautiful in the mess.
Even when it feels like too much, even when you want to shut it all out, you still have control over how you show up. And sometimes, showing up looks like taking a beat, grounding yourself, and choosing what's worth your energy.
Here's something that helps: focusing on what we can hold, even in the chaos. A warm cup of coffee, the right song at the right moment, the way the late afternoon light hit your living room—these tiny, fleeting things have a way of steadying us. Our spaces, routines, and even the smallest joys can anchor us when the world feels shaky.
If you’ve felt off balance lately, let’s reset together. This week is about small joys, big impact, and taking back your energy—one intentional shift at a time.
Good NEWS:
Sometimes all it takes is a reminder that good things are still happening.
The Lumineers’ new album is coming, so we can all have a soundtrack for our existential crises. “Automatic” drops on Valentine’s Day 2025
Rust-Oleum’s 2025 colors are basically therapy in a can. Warm caramels, deep blues, and rich earthy tones
Maximalist art is trending, which means goodbye to beige and hello to emotional depth. Statement pieces, bold colors, and a whole lot of personality are taking over boring walls everywhere.
California Fire Chief Saves Homes Using Milk and 'a Couple Beers' In an unconventional firefighting effort, a California fire chief utilized milk and a few beers to protect homes from an encroaching blaze, demonstrating resourcefulness and dedication to community safety.
Bookshop.org now sells e-books, so you can support indie bookstores without leaving your bed.
Introducing: The Cabinista Directory
I'm so excited to launch The Cabinista Directory—a place where we can uplift creators, small businesses, and resources that bring beauty and heart to our lives. This is about building a community that supports each other, one thoughtful recommendation at a time.
It’s a list where:
you can find your next favorite creator
you can write down your favorites for others to find
Take a look and add yours to the list! 💛
This Week's Finds:
🎥 Eila | Documentary Filmmaker & Writer – Former journalist with a sharp eye for storytelling, capturing the depth in everyday moments.
💰 Your Rich BFF – Making financial literacy feel like an inside scoop from your most savvy friend.
🍽 Meg Huylo | Private Chef –Expert recipes & insider tips on the best kitchen appliances for effortless, restaurant-quality cooking.
Do you have a favorite small business or creator? Hit reply and share them with me—I'd love to feature them in an upcoming edition.
Not Feeling Creative? Here’s What’s Helping Me
Creativity ebbs and flows, and some weeks, it feels impossible to find inspiration. If you’re stuck, here are a few things that have been helping me:
Change Your Scenery: Even a walk around the block or rearranging your desk can shift your mindset.
Create Without a Goal: Sketch, write, thrift, or style a shelf just for the sake of it—no pressure, just for fun.
Limit Input, Focus on Output: Too much scrolling kills creativity. Step away from the noise and let your own ideas breathe.
If you’ve been feeling stuck, you’re not alone. Try one of these this week and see what shifts.
A Moment to Reset:
Here's a simple grounding trick that's been helping me lately:
Gently cover your left eye with your hand.
Tilt your head up and take slow, deep breaths for 30 seconds.
It might sound a little odd, but it's a gentle way to calm your nervous system.
Remember, your sensitivity is your strength. You feel deeply, love fiercely, and care in ways that make the world brighter.
Simple Joys
It's the little things ✨
That first sip of coffee when it’s exactly the right temperature. A brief but powerful reminder that some things in life are just right.
Randomly hearing your favorite song in public. Like the universe DJ-ing just for you.
Fresh sheets after a long day. Maximum coziness, minimum effort.
When a dog gets too excited to see you. Nothing else matters—you are the chosen one!
Finding cash in a coat pocket you forgot about. Technically past-you’s money, but let’s not overthink it.
Finding The Perfect parking spot on the first try. It’s giving divine intervention.
Laughing so hard you forget whatever was stressing you out. Free therapy, no co-pay required.
Perfectly ripe avocado on the first try. No brown spots. No heartbreak. Just pure, green, guac-worthy bliss.
When someone waves you through at a four-way stop. Humanity, restored—at least for today.
A warm, buttery croissant. No explanation is needed. Just perfection.
Accidentally making the exact right amount of pasta. No waste, no measuring, just chef-level intuition.
In My Search Bar:
Music, art, and powerful women.
Female-Owned Business: Spending money where it matters.
Soft Services Theraplush Hand Lotion: Because my hands have been through some things.
Jelly Tabletop Lighter: Lighting candles, looking cute, I am obsessed.
Material Kitchenware: If I have to cook, it might as well be with something nice.
Dr. Zachary Rubin’s newsletter: A double board-certified allergist and pediatrician. He breaks down health info in a way that’s simple and won’t send you into a spiral.
Hozier Releases Tour Dates: Mentally already there, physically need tickets.
& Red Lipstick.
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