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The Guide to Barely Keeping It Together

The Guide to Barely Keeping It Together

Spoiler: We're all just winging it

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Peyton Davies
Aug 20, 2025
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Real-life routines and tiny automations that save your sanity during back-to-school chaos.
Tiny tools, automation hacks, and emotional resets for families in survival mode.
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And I'm not handling it well.

The fluorescent lights. The “bed by 8.” The sudden shift from summer chaos to institutional order, where creativity gets stuffed into 20-minute lunch periods.

I've never been good at scripts, and I've definitely never believed that rigid structure works for kids with glittery imaginations and too many questions for a world we've standardized.

Real-life routines and tiny automations that save your sanity during back-to-school chaos.  Mom-tested, meltdown-preventing tools and habits for surviving the September shift.  Back-to-school chaos meets automation. These are the only tools keeping us functional.

Clothes laid out. Lunch packed. Me, spiraling at midnight over the “should have done this weeks ago” list. No, I didn't deep-clean the house or build the Pinterest command center that promised to change our lives. But we all brushed our teeth. The lunchbox has grapes (yes, they are diced) and those little cheese crackers. And I'm about to write the world's longest lunchbox note because I need him to KNOW he's pure magic.

Motion sensor nightlight under kid’s bed for late-night visibility  Pre-packed breakfast bin in fridge with yogurt and fruit  Voice note app in use while cooking dinner  Smart lights turning purple upstairs at dinner time
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Meanwhile, I decided now would be the perfect time to make us a list; it was either that or completely crashing out over, you know, EVERYTHING.

These are the weirdly specific products and automations that buy back our time.

So here’s the deep dive. For both of us.

Because I really mean it: we’re in this together.

Smart lights turning purple upstairs at dinner time  A back-to-school survival basket with socks, snacks, and wipes  Heated blanket plugged into smart switch with Alexa command  Roomba running at night next to tidy kitchen
Real-life design, automation hacks, and cozy routines that buy back time and make your home actually work.
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P.S. - I'm also back with advent calendar roundups (because planning joy in August is who I am now). This year, I'm prioritizing small businesses, female-owned, and minority-owned brands alongside our favorites.

Send me your discoveries, I'm always looking for new advent calendars to obsess over.

There's also a little holiday project in the works…

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