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Speckled Eggs & Side Quests

For people with 847 screenshots they'll never look at again

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Peyton Davies
Apr 23, 2025
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At 2:47 AM last night, I was 3 tabs deep in button quail videos while Jim Croce's "Time in a Bottle" played for the eleventh consecutive time.

Not my rock bottom. Not even close.

Does your brain do this, too? Create elaborate escape hatches when the world gets too loud? When every headline feels like it's screaming directly to your nervous system? When people who've never worried about an overdraft fee are literally eating cake in space?

It's like my mind built an emergency exit door, and it led straight to tiny birds making ridiculous sounds on YouTube at 2 AM.

And then it hit me while watching Jim Croce performances after the quail videos (because my brain has exactly zero transition logic)...

Jim Croce was 30 years old when he finally "made it" after years of construction jobs and playing in empty bars.

Just as everything aligned, his plane crashed.

No warning. No grand finale.

Just a brief, brilliant moment and then gone. It's the brutal reminder none of us wants, but all of us need: the perfect time isn't coming.

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